If somebody hurts you, you have the right to expect an apology. When somebody says sorry to us, that person should not expect that we forgive the thing that person made. Real excuses mean that the person who says "sorry" changes the way to act. Saying "sorry" is not apologize if the person continues that behavior.
That means an apology is always made by a person self, who made the wrong thing. Not by secretaries of those persons. Apologizing is limited to the thing that person makes.
If the person steps accidentally to another person's feet, in that case, the word "sorry" is enough. If bones are not broken because of that thing. "Sorry" means just sorry without increments like "stupid". The phrase "sorry stupid" is not feeling good. Or not even an apology.
That person should not buy Roll's Royce to the victim, not even me. Just word sorry is enough. But sometimes we are facing persons who are not apologizing for anything. They are yelling get out my way. And after that blame others that they kept their feet in the wrong places.
Perhaps some people who shout at other people against their faces have spouses who die because of cancer. But not all people who shout racist and disgusting comments have cancerous half-parties at home.
And the words that these individuals sometimes use. Still do not feel good about the people targeted by them. They may justify their behavior in such a matter, but the fact is that insulting words hurt.
Real apologizing means that it is targeted to the person who is hurt. Not to the father of that person. Asking "sorry" is pointed always to the person who is hurt. And the thing is that it should not think as a truism. I hope nobody expects that the word "sorry" would just mean that the bullying and bad things that continued even years are suddenly forgotten when somebody says "sorry".
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